My life is a never ending circle of events that could easily be labeled WTF?

While I did make a comment earlier that today is possibly “Crazy Woman Day”, multiple parties attempted to clarify that every day is “Crazy Woman Day”. Whatever the case, today was exceptionally crazy, at least for me it was.

Last night, a friend I had the hopes of dating suddenly deleted our friendship on Facebook after a quick 2 second conversation. I assumed that she got back with her boyfriend, and didn’t want to pry for an explanation when she could possibly be with him. Instead I waited until I saw her today in class. I suppose I expected a remark or two about her being back with him, or at least asking if any of my advice helped. What actually happened was she answered my questions with a superiority complex, like whatever I did, hadn’t helped at all.

I feel like I had been sitting in the passenger seat telling her where to go for hours, taking her in the wrong direction. Then after finally frustrated to the point of enough, she ignored me and started to follow the signs that obviously pointed the way. Then shortly after the fact she still held some resentment that I was to blame for something, yet she didn’t want to come out and say it cause she knows I was trying to help. I’m being treated like an annoying idiot, that won’t go away.

I started to feel like this almost instantly after she sat down next to me. Another issue I was worried about, since last class we were flirting and laughing so much the professor told us not to sit next to each other anymore. A talk with the professor yesterday got her to retract that statement if we could behave, yet do to the short conversation on Facebook after the fact; I was never able to tell this girl I talked to the professor. I suppose she could have forgotten or maybe because she came in just under the wire of being late and didn’t want to look for another seat. I don’t know. Yet, she sat right down and wouldn’t even give me eye contact.

During the break we went to get a drink from the Peet’s on campus like usual, although we barely talked, and I felt more like a hopeless puppy dog following her around. After class I followed her out of the class and attempted to walk her to her car, again like usual. Just as she left the room, she glanced back looking right at me while I was approaching her. Instead of waiting, she just started walking and didn’t look back again. I followed her to her car about 20 feet behind her, possibly without her knowing I was even there. The distance between us grew and by the time I caught up she was driving away. In fact she had to stop to let me finish walking in front of her, which I thought might get a little attention, but again nothing.

I suppose it’s a given that because we have been flirting in public, on Facebook, and whenever we are around each other, that this guy she has been seeing has caught on. Or maybe she isn’t that dumb after all and is using me to make him jealous in order to get what she wants… and she finally got it. Whatever it is, I feel the need to back off and at least ignore her for a while.

Moving on, the only woman in my life right now that doesn’t resent me, mainly because she hasn’t learned how to yet, will turn 3 years old on Tuesday. So with the upcoming weekend I felt a little more obligated than usual to contact the woman who watches over her.

Round 2

My ex-wife answers the phone and first things out of her mouth are “thought you forgot about us, since you haven’t called in several days”. I am a little shocked that she would say something like that upon answering the phone and instantly muster up a strike back. Well, eye for an eye just leaves everyone blind. Before I knew it we were arguing and I was hanging up.

An hour or so later I tried my luck again and ended with the same results. I still have no clue when I can see my daughter this weekend.

So after dealing with two separate women I have given up trying to communicate logically with members of the opposite sex for the day. Hopefully things calm down and later I can make sense of some of this.

I’ve gone back and forth about a girl for a while now.  Last night I was talking with her about an issue she has been having with her boyfriend.  She is feeling ignored and with him living several hours away it makes everything for her more difficult.

I gave my honest opinion and told her that if she is unhappy with how her boyfriend deals with her she has three choices.

1. Move on and find someone else.
2. Grin and bear it.
3. Do something drastic, and pray that he will change.

I also explained that the last item was a bit risky, and she could loose him all together.

I woke up this morning to find that she has changed her relationship status on Facebook to “Single”, and her status was updated to say something along the lines of, “it’s over”.  She left a message to try and chat with me but I had already gone to bed.

Later in the day while I was heading to class she left a comment on one of my status updates which implyed that she was still in a good mood.  Then without warning this evening she asked me how I found her on Facebook, and then before I know it I am no longer her friend.

I haven’t met the guy she is dating, but based on what she has told me in the past they are back together and he is controlling her again.  This guy has caught her talking to me on Facebook before and “ordered” her to say “bye” then get off.

I don’t know what to think but I did know she was with another guy, so I guess I should have known what I was getting into.  I suppose that I had higher hopes than expected.  It could also be too soon to tell, but regardless I am racking my brain more than I should be.  Afraid she got back with the guy, and possible in trouble.  I guess I need to be patient and see where this goes tomorrow when I see her in class.

Am I being a bitch or did I just screw up any chance by pushing her to dump this guy sooner?

The Webcomic XKCD must read my blog, because today’s post is all too ironically appropriate to a few of my most recent posts.  The ironic thing isn’t the fact that they made this post, its that they have this conveniently placed on the map, called “YOUR BASE” which is exactly where I am at right now.  I find no reason why it would actually be there as it doesn’t relate to the comic at the top.

So in conclusion I have to decided that they are reading my blog, or I its another part of my living in the twilight zone.  Oh, wait….

Warning: this comic occasionally contains strong language (which may be unsuitable for children), unusual humor (which may be unsuitable for adults), and advanced mathematics (which may be unsuitable for liberal-arts majors).

I don’t understand the binary, if someone could explain that.  (It translates to “base 2″) Maybe I need a better understanding of baseball.

http://xkcd.com/540/

Didn’t even realize it until someone IMed today that I totally missed “Girl Friday”. Actually I missed the entire week. I remebered about missing Monday on my own late Wednesday and just said to myself everyone will understand and I am sure they know how to find it by now. (If not here is Monday and Wednesday). I don’t have anything on my laptop to make a quick Girl Friday. Like I do on my desktop back home. I have to go home later today to feed the dog (should of hired someone to do that) so maybe then I can make a quick “Belated Girl Friday”. But that is if I don’t get in a hurry and forget everything but the baby again. (Long story and have some blogs to make up.)

Not that I had time to actually do this, she just showed up on the right day of the week is all. This week’s Girl Friday is my daughter, Hanna Rachel. The hospital put this pic together.

http://www.paik.ac.kr/etc/newborn/newborn_ed.asp?p_hp=JA&i_seq=884